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yuzuxoo – Gaming and sexy cosplay from Saarland

We had the opportunity to conduct an interview with yuzuxoo

Professional Questions

Getting Started & Motivation

You used to work as an office clerk – what motivated you back then to take the step into content creation?
Was there a particular moment or experience that made you want to start on Twitch?

My motivation was the variety that the job offers and the connection to other people, even if it’s “just” online.

Twitch & Development

How has your Twitch channel evolved since you started in 2021 – what have been the biggest challenges for you?

The biggest challenges are, of course, always keeping your viewer numbers as high as possible, since there is a lot of competition.

Community & “Loner Gang”

You’ve built your own community called the “Loner Gang.” How would you describe your community?

I would describe my community as very loyal. They are also people who tend to live more withdrawn lives, hence the name “Loner Gang.” I can always count on them, and we support each other a lot.

Female Empowerment & Responsibility

You actively promote female empowerment – how do you demonstrate that on your channels?

Female empowerment is one of the most important parts of my job. I set clear boundaries and don’t tolerate inappropriate comments. The gaming scene is generally harder for women than for men, even though things have improved a lot in recent years. People are getting more used to the idea that women also play video games – and are often just as good (if not better 😉 ) than men. My advice to young women is to keep a healthy distance from their viewers, especially early in their careers, because many men will try to get close to them. The money involved should come second; it’s more important to maintain healthy boundaries while still forming a bond with your community.

4based & Future

What led you to join 4based in 2023 – and what do you particularly like about the platform?

I decided to join 4based because it’s a promising platform that offers features other sites don’t, which is great. I try to inspire others by keeping my content realistic, so women can see it’s not that hard to create good content, even without hundreds of outfits or lingerie at home. I’m not exactly sure where I see myself in 5 years, as I like to take things as they come – but hopefully still on social media.

Personal Questions

Personal Life & Daily Routine

What does a typical day look like for you – between streaming, content creation, and your private life?

A typical day for me is always different because I have the freedom to shape it however I like. I usually spend time watching YouTube or gaming. I film content at various times of the day – sometimes multiple times, sometimes just once. I mostly stream at night because I love the night.

Family & Social Environment

You mentioned that your family was skeptical at first – how do they support you today?
How does your social circle – especially in small Saarland – react to your public presence?

My family tries to support me as best they can, especially emotionally, which means a lot to me. How does my environment in Saarland react? Mostly with curiosity, because content creators aren’t very common here. But overall, it’s positive. (Once they understand what Twitch streaming even is 😄).

Travel & Dreams

You mentioned you’d like to visit other countries – is there a top destination on your list?
If money were no object: What would you do immediately?

Top travel destinations for me are Asian countries, especially Japan and Korea. If money were no issue, I might fly straight to Japan – and take my mother with me, since we get along really well.

Personal Values & Philosophy

What values are especially important to you – both in your content and your private life?
What would you like to tell people who follow you and may also often feel like a “Loner”?

Loyalty and honesty are very important to me – I’d say those are my most important values, both in myself and in others.

I want to tell people who are also loners that it’s okay not to fit into the “perfect” image of society. That’s what makes you special, and you’ll always find people who feel the same way. It’s nothing to be ashamed of.

Press Release

Gaming and sexy cosplay from Saarland

Under the pseudonym yuzuxoo, a remarkable young woman from Saarland has made a name for herself in the social media scene. At just 22 years old, Jessica, aka yuzuxoo, has already achieved impressive success as a content creator on Twitch and Instagram. Originally trained as an office clerk, Jessica took the bold step to pursue her dream and become self-employed in content creation.

Since starting her Twitch streaming journey in 2021, Jessica has built an impressive reach with over 15,000 followers on Twitch and more than 22,000 on Instagram. In 2023, her path led her to 4based, a platform that won her over with excellent service and many features.

A curious detail about Jessica’s relationship with her fans is that, being from a small state like Saarland, she sometimes meets fans in person. “It was especially funny when I met a fan who lived on my street – a very unique encounter,” says the 22-year-old.

Jessica places great importance on authenticity and maintaining a close connection to her community. Her focus isn’t just on creating 18+ content, but also on encouraging women and actively advocating for equality and female empowerment. “My family was skeptical at first, but they now accept my job and support me as best they can,” says Jessica.

She has founded her own community called the “Loner Gang.” Alongside her digital success, she also runs her own merch store, which reflects her fans’ bond with the “Loner Gang.”

Jessica dreams of becoming even more successful on 4based and other platforms. “My goal is to inspire and empower people,” says the young woman from Saarland. She also dreams of traveling to other countries and supporting her family. In her gaming content, Jessica uses high-quality equipment to showcase an impressive gaming setup. She occasionally dives into the world of cosplay, where her love of makeup and the ability to transform into different characters gives her a sense of boundless individuality.

With her personality and career path, Jessica (yuzuxoo) remains a fascinating figure in the world of content creation and an inspiration for her ever-growing “Loner Gang.”

Coralyn Jewel is guest on Adult Site Broker Talk

Performer Coralyn Jewel of Lokdx.com is this week’s guest on Adult Site Broker Talk.

Coralyn Jewel is on a mission to break down the stigmas around the adult industry, the Swinger lifestyle, kinks, fetishes, and fantasies.

Coralyn’s credentials include certification as a master’s sexologist, relationship and lifestyle coach, motivational speaker, blogger for various sex-positive online platforms, an adult industry veteran performer with nominations including AVN Hottest MILF and XBIZ Best MILF Clip Artist and earned an international best seller for her book, When The Ice Melts; The Story of Coralyn Jewel.

Coralyn has been acknowledged by the Lifestyle Magazine Awards with nominations for Best Lifestyle Adult Educator Website, Best Erotic Writer, and Best Lifestyle Adult Educator. She was named one of Pleazeme.com’s Top 100 Sexperts in 2022 and received the Susan Block Institute’s award for Best Sex Therapist in 2023.

In addition, Coralyn became the official face and lead ambassador of two interconnected platforms, NSFWSocial.com and Lokdx.com.

For the past two years, she has supported the company during its growth and launch. In 2022, CEO Vikki Summers invited her to represent the platforms. Coralyn’s mindset is in perfect harmony with the company’s mission, and she is honored to serve as its ambassador.

The mission remains simple: to empower creators and fans to express themselves freely and to provide a dignified space where sex workers can operate safely and legally, despite ongoing social scrutiny.

You can follow Coralyn on X @SweetblueCJ and Lokdx @LokdxSocial.

Bruce, the adult site broker, host of the show, and CEO of Adult Site Broker, said: “It was great to have Coralyn back on the show. She’s one of my favorite and most frequent guests.”

Adult Site Broker helps people buy and sell websites in the adult space. They are known as “the ethical broker” for their business practices. You can contact them on their website at adultsitebroker.com. Bruce, the adult site broker, is a two-time nominee for XBIZ Community Figure of the Year.

You can listen to Coralyn Jewel of Lokdx.com on Adult Site Broker Talk starting today at https://adultsitebrokertalk.com

Interview with Luuk de Boer – DialXS

Business Questions (Professional Insight)

What does a typical day look like for you as an Account Manager at DialXS?

A typical day as an Account Manager at DialXS goes as follows, answering to questions/requests from clients in my portfolio (mails/tickets/messages/calls) and maintain relationship management, always lookout for new business opportunities and assure the processes we work with align with what I have promised to the clients. This concerns the entire customer journey as they call it, from pre-check to boarding and aftercare, also I’m attending many conferences through out the year nationally but also internationally to seek for new business opportunities and of course meet already existing partners in real life.

How do you differentiate DialXS from other payment service providers?

The difference between us in comparison to many con-colleagues is that we work with a personal approach, meaning when needed you will always be able to contact someone in person to resolve matters as quickly as possible, quick pre-check and onboarding processes. A very capable technical department with in-house development so we are not depending on other third party techniques. Low tariffs, competitive and no hidden costs.

What are the biggest challenges and opportunities in the payment processing industry right now?

Keeping up with the requirements coming from our controlling authorities, since they are responsible for our payment license we are always keen on assuring that we comply to their rules. Since we are a relatively small company keeping up-to-date can be challenging but also keeps us sharp.

What kind of clients or industries does DialXS work with most often?

We have a very broad variety of merchants for which we provide services to, but most often adult related merchants, also dating is very common. But nutra, CBD, head- smartshops and many other high risk nichés are welcome with us!

Can you share a recent project or success story you’re particularly proud of?

The most recent finished project is the implementation of CashtoCode, furthermore we’ve got something big planned for the future but is not yet finished and still a little bit of a secret, but I can assure when finished I will definitely inform the industry about it!

How does DialXS handle compliance and security, especially with ever-evolving regulations?

We have a good and experienced Compliance department and if needed we will make use of hired experts that help us with assuring we are drawing within the lines so to say, due to the strict regulations we have to comply to, 25% of our staff is soly focussed on Compliance related matters. Next to that we have our own technical department and take care of security

What are some emerging trends you’re keeping an eye on in digital payments or fintech?

Of course VAMP is one of those matters we keep track on, but I’m always on the lookout for new payment methods that might be of interest for our merchants, the same accounts for third party services that might be of value for our merchants.

How has your approach to client relationships evolved over the years?

Being in the business for four+ years now I’ve learned that business can be found anywhere, so not just at the booths of a conference floor, but even when standing in line awaiting on an entry ticket for example, therefore never forget to bring your business (talk) with you;)!

What advice would you give a startup looking to integrate payment solutions for the first time?

For startups I can advise that a good start is half of the job, firstly get to know what you are doing and how to do it properly and assure all points are covered before reaching out to a PSP. The better a merchant has taken care of their business the better the chances are to get accepted. Sounds simple but when setting up a business in a high risk niche isn’t.

What makes a partnership with DialXS long-lasting and successful?

When partnering up with DialXS you can be sure of a long lasting business relationship, since we are quite strict but also pretty flexible and listen closely to the needs of our partners we can assure growth together and keeping all involved parties happy. We have been around for 25+ years so can say the experience is there.

Private/Personal Questions

Career and Motivation

What inspired you to work in fintech and become an account manager?

I started working in the financial industry in 2016, firstly started with at a financing company (Qander Consumer Finance) where I learned a lot about compliance, and kinda stumbled onto a job opportunity with DialXS in 2021, right away it had my interest since my formal experience seemed to be a good fit for the job. And here we are four years later and still enjoying every minute of it! Becoming an (Account) manager was a child hood dream, following the footsteps of my father.

Looking back, what has been your most defining career moment so far?

That was my decision to start working in the fintech industry, I didn’t expect upfront that it would be such a good fit for me, but only shows life eventually finds it’s way or leads you to it.

What’s the best career advice you’ve ever received—and from whom?

The best (career) advice I have received is from my father, do what you like and are good at, so you can reach your full potential. And if you do what you like it makes working life a lot easier, and in the end also benefits your private life, at least that’s the case with me personally. Furthermore I also follow Simon Sinek and he’s got a similar advice/quote: “Happiness comes from WHAT we do. – Fulfillment comes from WHY we do it.”

Lifestyle and Interests

What do you enjoy doing when you’re not working?

I enjoy spending time with my family when I’m not working, practicing sports like fitness/bodybuilding & self defence sports like Pencak Silat (Indonesian fight sport), listen to music or attend a concert or event. Go out for dinner and travelling. Ooh and my dog mustn’t be forgotten of course since in the end that’s a man’s best friend!

Do you have any hobbies or passions people might be surprised to learn about?

Since I really don’t like or eat seafood it might be a bit strange that I have many Koi Carps in my pond, and love to take care of them, one thing they can be sure of, I won’t eat them that’s for sure.

If you weren’t in the payments industry, what do you think you’d be doing?

Good question, I would probably still be working in sales since that’s my passion, but for what kind of company or brand it would be beats me.

Is there a book, podcast, or movie that has had a big impact on you personally or professionally?

The book of Stephen R. Covey, titled ‘The 7 habits of highly effective people’ I would recommend. My favourite movie is Snatch by Guy Ritchie, and also like Pulp Fiction and other titles produced by Quentin Tarantino.

Fun and Quirky

What’s one app on your phone you can’t live without—besides the obvious ones?

Duolingo, I like to make use of that app to keep my (foreign) languages on point.

Coffee or tea? Early bird or night owl?

Coffee man I am, without any additives, just coffee as strong as possible please. Regarding being an early bird or night owl, both would be the only correct answer.

What’s something on your bucket list you still want to achieve?

I’ve been travelling with my dad when I was younger often to many countries in and outside of Europe, and I would love to have similar trips with my own family, so that’s still on my bucket list for the near future. Career wise it’s hard to say, it still feels like I’m just getting started in the industry so who knows where I will end, I guess when my hunger for growth doesn’t end the bucket list will change from time to time since new goals appear along the way.

Nate Mallory is guest on Adult Site Broker Talk

Nate Mallory of Only Tax Deductions is this week’s guest on Adult Site Broker Talk.

Nate Mallory is a tax attorney and wealth manager and owns Only Tax Deductions Law Firm.

Nate completed his Juris Doctorate in only 2.5 years with concentrations in tax and business law. He completed his Masters of Law in Wealth Management in only 9 months, becoming the first at Texas A&M University School of Law to graduate with two law degrees.

Nate earned his second Master’s degree in Taxation in only six months while also gaining certifications as an Accredited Financial Counselor, Certified Financial Therapist, and Credentialed Mediator. His knowledge has been showcased in legal publications, and he authored a piece on the tax-saving “Augusta Rule.”

Only Tax Deductions Law Firm is the first tax-focused law firm serving the adult industry. It supports content creators and businesses, offering a one-stop solution for all their tax and financial needs.

From strategic tax planning and new business setup to contracts, legal guidance, tax return submissions, payroll, bookkeeping, and retirement advice, the firm provides top-level services tailored to the adult sector.

You can follow them on Instagram @OnlyTaxDeductions

Bruce, the adult site broker, host of the show, and CEO of Adult Site Broker, said: “I learned a lot about taxes talking to Nate. And I know that creators will learn even more. It was a great interview.”

Adult Site Broker helps people buy and sell websites in the adult space. They are known as “the ethical broker” for their business practices. You can contact them on their website at adultsitebroker.com. Bruce, the adult site broker, is a two-time nominee for XBIZ Community Figure of the Year.

You can listen to Nate Mallory of Only Tax Deductions on Adult Site Broker Talk starting today at https://adultsitebroker.com/podcast/

Adult Site Broker Podcast

We are proud to announce that Adult Site Broker Talk has been named number 20 in the Top 50 Adult Industry Podcasts by MillionPodcasts.

Bruce, the adult site broker, host of the show, and CEO of Adult Site Broker, said: “We’re very excited about this. It’s an honor to be recognized alongside so many other great voices in our industry. Thanks to all our listeners and guests. We couldn’t have done it without you.”

Now entering its sixth year, Adult Site Broker Talk continues to feature exclusive interviews with top names in the adult business. The show also covers expert tips on acquiring or selling adult websites.

Adult Site Broker offers brokerage services for adult websites, known throughout the industry for their ethical reputation. Visit their improved and updated site at adultsitebroker.com. Bruce, the company’s founder, has been nominated twice for XBIZ Community Figure of the Year.

You can find Adult Site Broker Talk at https://adultsitebroker.com/podcast/

Tubes Booster – A New CMS Tool for Adult Video Sites

Tubes Booster – A New CMS Tool for Managing and Monetizing Adult Video Sites

A powerful new content management system (CMS) has officially launched in the adult video space: Tubes Booster. This self-hosted, feature-rich platform is designed to give webmasters and content creators full control over their video sites — from managing content to maximizing monetization opportunities.

In an era where platform independence and traffic ownership have become critical, Tubes Booster provides an answer for those who want to operate and scale their own adult video websites without relying on third-party services. Built specifically for high-performance needs, the system is ideal for adult tube sites, niche video blogs, and affiliate-driven platforms looking to monetize video traffic more effectively.


What Is Tubes Booster?

Tubes Booster is a video CMS tailored for managing adult content. Unlike many generic content management systems, Tubes Booster was developed from the ground up with video in mind — particularly for the unique demands of adult traffic, affiliate monetization, and content structuring.

The script is fully self-hosted, meaning users install it on their own server and maintain full control over data, design, features, and monetization. This architecture allows for complete flexibility and ownership — key for those who want to scale without restrictions, censorship, or revenue sharing.


Who Is It For?

Tubes Booster is built for webmasters, marketers, affiliate managers, and entrepreneurs who are launching or managing adult video platforms. Whether you’re a solo creator looking to promote your own content, an affiliate building traffic funnels, or a network operator managing multiple niche sites, Tubes Booster offers the tools you need to manage content, analyze performance, and drive revenue.

It’s suitable for:

  • Full-featured adult tube sites
  • Niche-specific blogs (e.g., foot fetish, amateur, VR)
  • Affiliate video portals
  • Private or member-based platforms
  • Hybrid sites combining videos and photos

Key Features

Tubes Booster offers a robust set of features that help users build powerful, SEO-optimized, and profitable websites:

  • Multi-Resolution Video Support
    Upload and manage videos in multiple resolutions (e.g., 480p, 720p, 1080p) with automated encoding and thumbnail generation.
  • Integrated Photo Galleries
    Alongside video content, users can add photo sections — great for hybrid platforms that combine media types.
  • Affiliate & Ad Monetization
    Insert banners, affiliate links, referral codes, and paid promotional content with flexible placement throughout the site.
  • Real-Time Stats & Reporting
    Built-in analytics let you track views, clicks, engagement, and conversions across different content types and ad zones.
  • SEO Optimization
    Tools for optimizing titles, URLs, tags, metadata, and sitemaps help boost search engine visibility, especially on Google and Bing.
  • Customizable Design
    Use responsive templates with easy-to-modify layouts and styles. Create a unique look that reflects your brand or niche.
  • Open Architecture
    The system is extendable and prepared for integration of custom plugins and third-party tools, making it future-proof for developers and marketers.

Why Choose Tubes Booster?

While there are several video CMS tools available, few are purpose-built for adult content and monetization. Tubes Booster fills that gap by offering:

  • Independence – no restrictions from hosting platforms or commercial gatekeepers.
  • Performance – optimized for fast loading and smooth video playback.
  • Control – full access to server-side code, content logic, and monetization strategies.
  • Scalability – suitable for growing from a single niche site to a large adult network.

In addition, Tubes Booster receives regular updates and offers paid support services, including script installation, server setup, branding-free options, and more.


Get Started

If you’re serious about building a successful video platform and want the tools to scale effectively, Tubes Booster offers the flexibility and power you need.

For more information, demos, or technical inquiries, visit:
🌐 https://tubesbooster.com
📧 Contact: support@tubesbooster.com

Andrew Rivera is Guest on Adult Site Broker Talk

Andrew Rivera of Confirmo is this week’s guest on Adult Site Broker Talk.

Andrew serves as an Account Executive at Confirmo, a prominent platform that simplifies the integration of cryptocurrency and stablecoin payments for businesses, encouraging wider adoption of digital finance.

With a fintech background, Andrew is passionate about propelling forward-thinking payment solutions in industries that struggle with banking limitations, like the adult entertainment space.

Confirmo is a globally trusted name in crypto payments. It offers secure and streamlined services that support digital transactions in high-risk industries without dependence on traditional banks.

Through rapid settlement, minimal fees, and volatility resistance, Confirmo delivers a stable payment infrastructure for businesses aiming to expand their financial options.

You can follow them on X @CryptoConfirmo

Bruce, the adult site broker, host of the show, and CEO of Adult Site Broker, said: “I thought I knew a lot about crypto before talking to Andrew. But he blew me away with the ins and outs of cryptocurrencies. This is a good listen for anyone even thinking about using crypto.”

Adult Site Broker helps people buy and sell websites in the adult space. They are known as “the ethical broker” for their business practices. You can contact them on their website at adultsitebroker.com. Bruce, the adult site broker, is a two-time nominee for XBIZ Community Figure of the Year.

You can listen to Andrew Rivera on Adult Site Broker Talk starting today at https://adultsitebroker.com/podcast/

Interview with John- Flirt.Cash

Flirt.Cash in Conversation: Why the Courage to Think Differently Is the Key to Success

From affiliate insider tip to an established brand in the online dating segment – Flirt.Cash has undergone a development that sparks curiosity.

Today, Flirt.Cash stands for strategy and performance – but how did the idea behind Flirt.Cash come about? Was there that one “aha” moment?

Yes, and it had consequences. Flirt.Cash wasn’t a product of chance – rather a flash of inspiration with a clear vision. Like many groundbreaking ideas, Flirt.Cash didn’t originate in a meeting room but at a relaxed affiliate party on a summer evening over
20 years ago. Between a glass of wine and conversations with industry veterans about conversion rates, we suddenly realized:
The online dating market needs more than standard solutions – it needs precise targeting and sustainable performance.

What followed wasn’t a short-term fix but a long-term process – a strategically thought-out and purposeful development advanced step by step:

  • 2010: Massive traffic, but little revenue – the imbalance was obvious.
  • 2011: In-depth analysis of existing dating programs: weak advertising materials, bumpy sales processes, and poor customer retention. Lots of potential, little substance.
  • 2012: Launch of our own platform – user-centered and performance-oriented.
  • 2013: First inquiries from interested webmasters.
  • 2014: Transformation into a scalable affiliate solution.
  • 2015/16: Intensive testing and optimization phase with 15 selected partners.
  • 2017: Official go-live for all affiliates.

Today, Flirt.Cash is the only dating affiliate program in the DACH region that has established itself as a specialized niche provider with real long-term value.

Our focus? Value for partners – through data-based targeting, user-centered offers, and over 70 specific dating niches in several countries. Flirt.Cash is the go-to for affiliates who prefer targeted performance over mass marketing.

In one sentence – without empty marketing phrases: What truly defines Flirt.Cash?

Flirt.Cash stands for long-term win-win partnerships, supported by SEO expertise, technical support, data-driven A/B testing, and custom advertising materials – always with one clear goal: conversion. Conversion. Conversion.

On a personal note: what would your grandma say about what you do today?

(Smiles) She would say: “And you earn money with that? Incredible!” In 1996, she gave me the startup money for my first online project and said: “I don’t know what this is, but you’re doing it with conviction.” Today, she’d probably just shake her head and say: “Well, you figured it out somehow – keep going!” A visionary with knitting needles.

Was there that one moment when you realized: okay, this can actually make money?

Yes, when the first user paid – for a site that was still in beta. Then I knew: if this works, it’s more than just an experiment. Not the pursuit of perfection, but the perfect moment. And that was
the spark that never left me. I knew: if this
works, there’s much more to come.

Hand on heart: how do you stay morally grounded in a polarizing industry?

In an industry that constantly juggles provocation and performance, a personal compass isn’t a luxury – it determines success or failure. Clear boundaries preserve integrity, and a dose of humor helps keep smiling even
in the storm. Because once you lose the fun, you lose more than just your direction.

What has been the most unexpected experience Flirt.Cash has had – good or bad?

The biggest surprise was how quickly even complete newcomers became top affiliates with the right motivation and a feel for their audience. At the same time, it was disheartening that some promising partners gave up early – not due to lack of skill, but due to a lack of patience, strategy, and the right mindset. Talent opens doors, but mindset determines who stays for the long run.

What sets your team apart – and makes your collaboration so strong?

What sets us apart? We’re not a normal team – we’re a creative chaos forge where tech nerds meet marketing rebels. Our SEO team? A GPS for affiliates – so no one gets lost in the Google desert.
Our developers? Invisible ninjas – quiet, fast, and incredibly precise. Tracking, postbacks, deeplinks? Smooth.
And marketing? Bold, cheeky, unpredictable – anything but boring. Flirt.Cash is the “cheetah in the affiliate jungle”: fast, smart, and always ready to reinvent the game.

Flirt.Cash sets standards – what ingredients are needed for long-term success in this business?

To succeed in this business, you need more than market knowledge and experience. It takes courage to think differently, flexibility for quick decisions, and a good dose of humor to get through tough phases with a smile.
Our success is based on persistence, willingness to learn, and a feel for the right niches – especially real “power niches.” The rule: stay patient and consistently work toward sustainable results.

How do you navigate pitfalls like data protection, platform rules, and social prejudices – is there a clear inner compass?

In the adult dating sector, data protection, platform rules, and social prejudices are daily challenges. Flirt.Cash tackles these with clear rules, experience, and healthy pragmatism. We know the limits – and still
deliver convincing results. Our inner compass? Responsibility, calmness, and the ability to stay cool even in heated moments.

What do you want to preserve for Flirt.Cash in the future – and what’s an absolute no-go?

I want Flirt.Cash to stay true to its quirks and edges – no uniform blandness, but a team with character and heart. What’s a no-go? Losing the courage to be different and becoming too conformist. Better a bit chaotic and creative than smoothed out
and boring. Honestly: who wants to be a “mass-market lion” when you can be a clever “niche fox”?

After all that business talk, now the real John: Ten quick questions to reveal who’s really behind the facade.

Who was John before starting Flirt.Cash?

A strategist who was good at the game – but never liked the rules. I advised corporations, juggled numbers, built structures. But honestly? The real thrill was in uncharted territory. The dating business back then
was new ground – a playground for the brave and creative. So I said: “Why not?”

My grandma always said: “You always find a way, even if there isn’t one.” Well, she was right. A visionary with knitting needles, indeed.

How do your days go – improvised with coffee or planned to the minute?
My day runs like a well-oiled clock – but always with room for spontaneous ideas. And yes, coffee? Can’t do without it. It’s my secret boss.

When do you switch off – and how do you manage that in a job like this?

Switching off? A good plan, but not always easy to implement. I rely on small breaks: walks, a good book, or simply doing nothing. Even in a hectic job, you need to know how to unplug before the battery runs out.
But don’t worry – the job is so exciting that “switching off” often feels more like an art than a necessity.

What was the last thing that really made you laugh – maybe even at the office?

It was when I thought about how many fetish niches exist and how different the typologies are. In our industry, it seems like there’s a whole universe for every preference – from classic to completely unexplored corners. It’s fascinating how individual and incredibly specific interests can be. Sometimes you wonder if there’s a secret fetish niche for “fetish collectors” – who knows? (laughs)

Is there a quote or phrase that helps you stay calm in tough moments?

“Everything is a puzzle that eventually fits together.” Sometimes it helps just to believe that even the most chaotic situations will sort themselves out – even if it takes a while. It reminds me that patience is often the key to
solutions.

What book or movie recently inspired you – professionally or personally?

“Why We Sleep” by Matthew Walker. It inspired me not only personally but also professionally to rethink the importance of good sleep. As someone who works a lot with productivity and mindset, it’s incredibly valuable to
understand how sleep affects our brain and performance – and how we can optimize it.

“The Matrix” – this movie remains fascinating to me, especially from a neuroscience perspective. It’s not just about what is real, but also about how our perception and thinking shape our entire lives. It reminded me how important it is to think critically and always look behind the curtain – in business and in everyday life.

If you could switch places with someone for a day – real or fictional – who would it be and why?

I’d love to trade places with Warren Buffett for a day. What fascinates me most about him is his extraordinary patience and long-term thinking – traits that are rare in fast-paced business environments. He has an amazing ability to recognize the value of companies and investments over the long term instead of being distracted by short-term fluctuations. And above all, I admire his humility and commitment to principles. How he stays true to his values and doesn’t let trends or market noise sway him is truly impressive. It would be interesting
to find out how I could integrate that mindset into my own life.

What does your inner compass look like when facing tough decisions?

My inner compass is guided by two things: authenticity and long-term impact. I always ask myself: “Will this decision really move me or the company forward?” If the answer is yes, I know I’m on the right path.
Decisions that may seem attractive in the short term but offer no lasting value – I prefer to leave them behind.

What advice would you give to a 20-year-old today?

“Use your time to find what truly drives you. Instead of getting lost in a degree that doesn’t fit you, find a market gap you enjoy and become an expert in it. Work with focus and passion – and after 20 years
of hard work, you can enjoy life to the fullest at 40 as the boss of your own company.” But of course, if you invest in crypto or NFTs today, it might happen much faster… if you’re lucky! (laughs)

And last but not least: Is there a question no one’s ever asked you – but you wish they would?

Yes, there is: “What happens when you dare to try something truly different?” The answer: We’re developing something that has never been done in the dating space before. An approach that brings a breath of fresh air to the industry – and
that’s exactly why it’s so exciting. No one has tackled it like this before, and that’s what drives us. It will be different, it will be exciting, and it will definitely be anything but boring.

Sounds promising, John. Thanks for the insights – we’re excited to see what Flirt.Cash will rock next!

Leijla Foss is guest on Adult Site Broker Talk

Elite Companion and Business Coach Leijla Foss is this week’s guest on Adult Site Broker Talk.

Leijla Foss is a premier companion based in Washington, DC, dedicated to curating meaningful, unforgettable experiences for ambitious, discerning gentlemen. With an effortless flair for living well, Leijla brings elegance and authenticity to every encounter.

Fearless and refined, Leijla rides motorcycles with ease, speaks multiple languages gracefully, and writes with a voice that captivates and moves. In 2023, she brought her expertise to coaching and guiding adult industry professionals under her brand, Elite & Unconventional.

She champions a lifestyle of luxury, connection, and fearless individuality. Her purpose is to awaken a sense of joy and liberation in the unconventional. From winding roads to heartfelt exchanges, Leijla lives a life designed to inspire and empower.

You can follow Leijla on X @leijla_foss

Bruce, the adult site broker, host of the show, and CEO of Adult Site Broker, said: “I had a fascinating conversation with Leijla. She is interesting, intelligent, and witty. This is one you’ll all enjoy.”

Adult Site Broker helps people buy and sell websites in the adult space. They are known as “the ethical broker” for their business practices. You can contact them on their website at adultsitebroker.com. Bruce, the adult site broker, is a two-time nominee for XBIZ Community Figure of the Year.

You can listen to Elite Provider Leijla Foss on Adult Site Broker Talk starting today at https://adultsitebroker.com/podcast/

Men’s health at VENUS Berlin

Men’s Health as a Topic for the First Time at VENUS Berlin: GoSpring Makes Its Trade Fair Debut – with Egon and a Clear Message

Berlin, June 2025. VENUS Berlin, Europe’s largest erotic trade fair, will for the first time in 2025 become a platform for a medically and socially relevant topic: sexual dysfunction in men. With the digital health provider GoSpring, a telemedicine partner will be represented at the event for the first time, focusing specifically on erectile dysfunction (ED) and premature ejaculation (PE) – two common but highly taboo health issues.

GoSpring is using the fair to make accessible medical information readily available and to initiate a conversation where sexuality is already the main focus.

“Many men experience insecurity in bed – but don’t talk about it. This isn’t a sign of weakness, but something completely normal and medically treatable,” says performer and VENUS brand ambassador Egon Kowalski.

Taboo Meets Reality: Millions of Men Affected

Menn´s Health According to estimates, one in three men experiences erectile dysfunction at some point in their lives. Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual disorder among men under 40. Causes range from stress and performance pressure to hormonal or vascular factors – treatment options are diverse, but often don’t reach the places where men actually seek information.

This is where GoSpring comes in: through the platform, affected individuals get online access to medical questionnaires, personalized doctor consultations, and – where medically appropriate – prescription medication. Treatment is discreet and location-independent – no waiting room, no shame.

Awareness On-Site and Online

With GoSpring’s participation, VENUS is opening itself to an important social issue. An accompanying awareness campaign – both online and on-site – will make facts visible, dispel myths, and give affected men a voice. Planned activities include social media campaigns, expert interviews, and interactive content directly at the booth.

VENUS Berlin GmbH

Since 1997, VENUS Berlin has annually showcased trends and innovations in the fields of erotica and lifestyle. With over 270 exhibitors from 40 countries, it is the largest international trade fair of its kind. In the exhibition halls beneath the radio tower, producers and wholesalers present their services and products from the fashion and lovetoy sectors. All of them take advantage of the attention of more than 34,000 visitors each year, drawn by the mix of professional product information at the booths and erotic entertainment on the show stages. The internationally renowned fair attracts visitors, professionals, and media from all over the world to Berlin every year.